Why is it so hard...

To just let myself climb out of my comfort bubble? I am desperate for friends around here yet I can't seem to make myself get out and find them. I teach primary at church and so I don't get a ton of opportunities there to talk to adults. It is hard. It's always been hard for me to get out of my zone and talk to anyone. I feel like it's sad sometimes that all of my friends are wonderful women that I've met online (you all know who you are). They are amazing and wonderful women but there is something that I'm missing. I don't have anyone to just go out to lunch with or to take the kids over and play. How can I make it easier....